THE CLIENT webinar session

Webinar Recording Available Now   $25.00 Join me for a (recorded live) webinar session devoted to the needs and perspective of the survivor of sexual abuse/assault, and who is the Client of sexual healing. We will be exploring the issues and concerns that survivors face in safely getting the help they seek. Abuse Survivors If Read More …

Sexual Energy & Ejaculation Mastery

You’ve met the woman of your dreams and now your relationship has progressed to include sex. You’re enjoying her touch and your arousal is high; she has welcomed you into her “secret garden” of delight and ecstatic jolts of sexual energy are rocking your world. Suddenly, before you can stop it, your turn-on takes you Read More …

Enter the Caressing

“When being caressed, sweet Devi, enter the caressing as everlasting life.” This sutra from the Vijnanabhairava Tantra contains a sacred secret for tantrikas. Orthodox tantrists like to say that Tantra is not about sex—that it is so much more than sex. They’re right. Sex is merely a vehicle for discovery, revelation and transcendence! It’s like Read More …

Tantra is Prayer

“Approach the sex act as if it is prayer, as if it is meditation. Feel the holiness of it.” Meditation is more mind-oriented, prayer is more heart-oriented. Or we can say that prayer is a technique of meditation for heart-oriented persons. (Osho: The Book of Secrets pg.96) BLESSED ONE, AS SENSES ARE ABSORBED IN THE Read More …

Manifesto for the Support of Women by Awakened Men

Men: Please affirm this manifesto with your comment (below) and share this with other men on social media and by email. In vulnerable circumstances and intimate relationships, the awakened male recognizes and honors: Women are equal in autonomy and consideration—not someone to use or take advantage of when she is in a vulnerable situation or Read More …

The Essence of Tantra

“Tantra” has an ancient lineage and has undergone many alterations and refinements over the centuries which have produced many different forms of this esoteric science. For many that practice Tantra, its essence is: self-knowledge and spiritual-expansion of the individual through intimate connection with the beloved. Through the mirror of the beloved, the Tantrika (aka Sadhaka Read More …

Tantric Healing

Tantric healing is an alternative healing practice that is becoming more known and accepted as the stigma of fear attached to sexuality and the body lessens in modern culture. Since the later decades of the 20th century, Tantra, the esoteric science of sacred sexuality has become prevalently known in the U.S. and western culture. Tantric healing Read More …

Sacred Intimacy & Sexual Healing

What is “Sacred Intimacy” or Sexual Healing? Sacred Intimacy is a form of sexual healing describing a purposefully created opportunity for healing and releasing wounds from emotional and sexual trauma. It also describes the experience itself—which is both “sacred” (elevated, enhanced, spiritual) and intimate (open, vulnerable, transparent, accepting). In sacred intimacy sessions, very intimate and Read More …