Sunyata Satchitananda

sexual ethics

  • A couple shares an affectionate moment on a couch. The woman gently signals her wish to pause, her expression thoughtful and uncertain, while the man responds with mild disappointment. The scene illustrates differing desires, sexual consent, and the importance of respecting boundaries while maintaining affection.

    When Saying No Doesn’t Feel Possible

    What happens when someone welcomes romantic intimacy but isn’t sure they want to go further? Exploring sexual consent, unspoken uncertainty, changing desires, and emotional expectations, this essay draws from counseling and personal relationship experiences to examine how women and men can better understand one another, respect boundaries, and create the freedom to express what they…

  • A woman and a man stand at a respectful distance in a forest clearing, with a calm bear in the background, symbolizing women’s safety, personal boundaries, and men’s responsibility.

    Women’s Safety and Men’s Responsibility

    The Cornell sexual assault allegations and #IamJaneDoe renew difficult questions about women’s safety, men’s behavior, and personal accountability. Drawing on more than two decades of counseling experience, Sunyata examines how we can stand firmly against abuse, recognize conscientious men, and encourage greater mutual understanding without compromising women’s right to safety.